[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/ale-ja-to-potrebuju\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/ale-ja-to-potrebuju\/","headline":"Ale j\u00e1 to pot\u0159ebuju!","name":"Ale j\u00e1 to pot\u0159ebuju!","description":"Dobrou zpr\u00e1vou je, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed do deseti let nen\u00ed ve sv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edch ani vyjedn\u00e1vac\u00edch strategi\u00edch zas tak kreativn\u00ed. Pokud se rodi\u010d nezlom\u00ed po prvn\u00edm … ","datePublished":"2020-09-18","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2b882a21216b34ba28e79730eea9356b725e9a0bf9885ae3bedd792ae606fb10?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2b882a21216b34ba28e79730eea9356b725e9a0bf9885ae3bedd792ae606fb10?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"orlet.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a316369_w2051_t1527322290.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a316369_w2051_t1527322290.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/ale-ja-to-potrebuju\/","about":["N\u00e1kupy"],"wordCount":452,"articleBody":"Dobrou zpr\u00e1vou je, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed do deseti let nen\u00ed ve sv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edch ani vyjedn\u00e1vac\u00edch strategi\u00edch zas tak kreativn\u00ed. Pokud se rodi\u010d nezlom\u00ed po prvn\u00edm m\u00edrn\u00e9m n\u00e1tlaku, jsou n\u00e1sledn\u00fdmi strategiemi \u017eebr\u00e1n\u00ed, \u0159ev nebo, u star\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed, snaha smlouvat. Jak ale \u010delit tomu, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b sv\u00edr\u00e1 v ruce ji\u017e dvan\u00e1ct\u00e9 auto, i kdy\u017e jeho obl\u00edbenou hra\u010dkou je stejn\u011b tablet? Prvn\u00ed trik je zkusit ho nechat vysv\u011btlit, v \u010dem je dan\u00e1 v\u011bc jin\u00e1 ne\u017e ta, co u\u017e m\u00e1 doma. M\u00edsto oblig\u00e1tn\u00edho „takov\u00e9 u\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 doma \u010dty\u0159i“ zkuste „a pro\u010d zrovna tohle?“Jist\u011b, bude to chv\u00edli trvat, ale m\u00e1te docela slu\u0161nou \u0161anci, \u017ee samo dojde k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee danou v\u011bc vlastn\u011b tolik nechce. M\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 hr\u00e1t hru „co jsi ochotn\u00fd\/ochotn\u00e1 pro to ud\u011blat?“ Tedy, kdy\u017e j\u00e1 ti te\u010f koup\u00edm zmrzlinu, pom\u016f\u017ee\u0161 mi ty m\u00edsto kouk\u00e1n\u00ed na Ve\u010dern\u00ed\u010dek s n\u00e1dob\u00edm? Je to jedna z prvn\u00edch p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed, jak sv\u00e9mu potomkovi vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee v\u011bci maj\u00ed svou cenu. Dal\u0161\u00edm \u010dast\u00fdm argumentem mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed je, \u017ee XY to m\u00e1. Proti tomu se bojuje hodn\u011b t\u011b\u017eko, ale zkusit m\u016f\u017eete „a m\u00e1 to AB?“ pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b „ale ty m\u00e1\u0161 zase…“ Prost\u011b zkuste uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee jenom proto, \u017ee to m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd, nutn\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee to pot\u0159ebuje taky. Nikdy nen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 brzy nau\u010dit se odol\u00e1vat reklam\u011b a tak\u00e9 tlak\u016fm okol\u00ed.U star\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed, hlavn\u011b u t\u011bch, co u\u017e dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed kapesn\u00e9 nebo dokonce chod\u00ed na brig\u00e1dy, je docela \u00fa\u010dinnou strategi\u00ed to, \u017ee se s potomkem dohodnete na rozd\u011blen\u00ed n\u00e1klad\u016f. Tedy t\u0159eba, kdy\u017e si na\u0161et\u0159\u00ed\u0161 p\u016flku, j\u00e1 ti proplat\u00edm tu druhou. Je dobr\u00e9 c\u00edl nastavit tak, aby nebyl \u00fapln\u011b nedosa\u017eiteln\u00fd, ale na druhou stranu by mlad\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk m\u011bl b\u00fdt nucen n\u011bco ob\u011btovat. Tedy, pokud chce nov\u00fd telefon, tak se bude muset na n\u011bjakou dobu vzd\u00e1t kina, koncert\u016f nebo p\u00e1r odpoledn\u00ed\/ve\u010der\u016f s kamar\u00e1dy. Op\u011bt je tak\u00e9 dobr\u00e9 rozli\u0161ovat, co v\u00e1\u0161 syn \u010di dcera skute\u010dn\u011b pot\u0159ebuje, a co je „jen“ snaha b\u00fdt cool. Pokud je to sportovec, tak ty tenisky asi v\u00e1\u017en\u011b u\u017eije, na druhou stranu Converse nebo dokonce vintage adidasky k \u017eivotu nezbytn\u011b nutn\u00e9 nejsou.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ale j\u00e1 to pot\u0159ebuju!","item":"https:\/\/www.orlet.cz\/ale-ja-to-potrebuju\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]